Oh boy, so I went to Diane's house yesterday. I had never been in her sewing room before and had no idea what to expect. However, I have known Diane for many years and have learned some of her habits. She always finishes things. I have never heard her talk about a UFO in my life! She was very organized. But having worked in a quilt store for many years, what came home with her?
It was a quick walk through the forest to her house. The temperature was great, and there were big fluffy flakes of snow, and the walk was beautiful. I was off on an adventure.
Walking to Diane's |
When I arrived, her husband was so happy to see me. I know him from my frequent visits to their home. The sewing room was beautiful as there was so much light from that window, and her furniture was outstanding. Oh my -- it was terrific.
OK—I snapped a couple of photos when Jerry went downstairs. I would have enjoyed working in this room with all that natural light over the sewing machine. Yes, I could have the same thing in Studio U, but I don't have internet access there, so it doesn't work.
Diane's sewing room |
The other side |
I know it was overwhelming to him, but to me, it was OK. There was still a lot of fabric, but it wasn't in comparison to what I have.
After looking at what was on the bed and inside the cupboards and asking a few questions, I told him I would take it all. Shoot me now, but I owe Diane that for everything she did for me. Jerry didn't want to be bothered selling any of it; he just wanted it gone. The only thing he wants to sell is two Brother sewing machines.
Thankfully, he had lots of bags in the room, so I set to work and filled many bags with fabric and other supplies. After I cleared off the dresser and the bed, he shooed me out of the house. I think it was exhausting for him, so I left. I'm returning today with the car and will bring all of it home (I hope!).
I still have to empty the large cabinet in the corner of the first photo. And some drawers under the desk. I'm taking some IKEA bags with me to make quick work of the packing.
I have no idea how smokey the fabric smells, as it was hard to tell in the house. Once I get it out, it will be easier to access. For now, I will unload it all into the garage and probably deal with one bag at a time.
A lot of fabric can be used as backings for the community project quilts that Diane made, which will help enormously! There was a bit of batting, but not tons.
Here is my takeaway from this. This is the FOURTH time I've rescued someone.
- The first time was for a friend from our Monday Sewing group who passed away from cancer and was very private about it. While we didn't touch her stash, our group (mostly me) finished many UFOs for her. I offered our services to finish them, and we were inundated with stuff she wanted finished. It was hard to refuse.
- The second time was for a frequent student in my quilting classes at The Hobby Horse. She was killed in a motorcycle accident, and through a mutual friend, I again offered to finish some of her UFOs. She didn't have many, but it took a while to accomplish that.
- The third time was for a woman from our Monday Sewing group. She hadn't been in the group for a while, but we stayed in touch. She had stopped sewing, and she was getting rid of all her stuff while she was alive. Bless her—she was super organized. The remaining UFOS (two) are being completed so they can be donated. The rest of the fabric is in the storage room and will be used for community project quilts.
- And the fourth time was Diane, where I was "in charge" of the entire room. Thankfully, Jerry found someone else to deal with all her knitting stuff.
What's the moral of this story? Don't call me - I've done my time!
Just kidding -- here are some tips:
- Organize EVERYTHING. This will make it easier for someone to figure out what is there
- Put all the bits of a UFO in the box and label it!
- Anything that you don't like - patterns, books, fabric, rulers, etc -- donate or sell it NOW
- Anything you will never use again - patterns, books, fabric, rulers, etc. --donate or sell it NOW
- STOP BUYING -- NOW
- Stop denying that this will happen to you! It WILL, and if you plan on leaving your messy sewing room for someone else to clean up, I will track your soul down and haunt you! Leaving a mess is not payback to anyone—it is irresponsible.
- If you are NEW to quilting, do NOT CREATE this mess. Learn from our mistakes! The more you buy, the bigger the mess becomes! DO NOT let that happen to you. You do NOT need all the latest gadgets or fabric. There will always be new stuff!
- Do NOT lose your mobility. That is just a recipe for allowing clutter to accumulate!
- If you are not that mobile, HIRE someone to help you!
If I think of any other tips, I'll add them to this list. And yes, you could say I'm the pot, calling the kettle black. I will not deny that cleaning up my place would be horrible if I didn't come home today. I can't imagine where I would start, let alone anyone else. At least things are organized, but the quantity would bowl anyone over!
I chuckle when I think of how I plan to bring everything home in one carload. Jerry says it'll be two, and it might since I'm also selling the sewing machines for him, and I'll bring those home with me. I would need a semi-truck to empty my room! And that's not a joke! It's also a harsh reality! Who would absorb all my crap?
So be warned! Start cleaning up; if you are already cleaning up, you better move faster! Sew faster, donate quicker, or whatever. But you cannot leave this mess to a loved one. I felt bad for Jerry. He was lost and overwhelmed. As sad as he is to see this stuff go, I bet he will feel much better when it's gone.
I've been very productive these last few days; here are two quilts I got quilted.
Customer quilt - DONE |
Customer quilt - DONE |
I have more to share, but no more time this morning. I'm on my way to the gym to see Brooke.
Have a great day!!
Ciao!!!