We had a conversation about my magazines at the Virtual Retreat yesterday. Just throw them away - AHA! - They didn't listen that I need to do it my way!
But here are a couple of reasons why I need to do it my way. I gave this a lot of thought during my morning walk with the girls and my afternoon walk.
- I may find inspiration for something in the magazine.
- I may find something (or multiple somethings) that then become a story for the blog.
- Or my warped sense of humor may just be amused by a tidbit I find.
In light of the quantity of magazines, here's what I did. I sorted through the stacks on the floor and pulled out all the CAA magazines. That is the equivalent of the AAA in the US.
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A stack of unread CAA magazines |
Then I sorted them by date. I HAVE to - I'm a Virgo and we like order. And this was the oldest. Yep - that's Sarah Richardson on the cover - she's 37.
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The cover of the oldest CAA magazine |
I know that means nothing to you - it means nothing to me. But here's the date. OK - a bit dated.
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Yikes - more than 15 years old! |
This was a conversation I had with myself throughout the day.
Subconscious: How old are those magazines?
Me: They date from Fall 2009 to Fall 2021
Subconscious: Did you buy these magazines?
Me: No - they came automatically as I was a member of CAA
Subconscious: Did you ever find anything of interest in past issues?
Me: Typically, little tidbits of information that I didn't really need.
Subconscious: Did you ever use any of CAA services that would require you to stay on top of what services they provide?
Me: Whine - No, stop asking me the hard questions. I want to keep those magazines!
Subconscious: Do you agree that all information related to technology is outdated?
Me: Yes - I agree.
Subconscious: Do you agree that most of these interesting tidbits could be gleaned from another source that is current in your life?
Me: OK - I agree.
Subconscious: Look at the cover of the oldest one - take a close look. Do you care about identity theft? Yes - you do, but not using information from 2009 - technology has changed since then. Same with renovating - you're not going to renovate your house. And do you care about Sarah? She's onto something else these days. What about the housing boom? Do you think it's the same now as then?
Me: STOP! Stop being a bully!
Subconscious: So, you're going to go home and toss those CAA magazines out. Right?
Me: I can't!
Subconscious: But you want to - don't you?
Me: Yes - I do, but I can't! Not without looking at them!
Subconscious: OK -- you do what you want, but you are wasting your time!
What happened? I looked through the two oldest magazines. And I found this ad, which I thought was hilarious, as it was a huge thing at that time. This northern community advertised everywhere as a retirement community. And lots of people have moved there! The ads worked!
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Ad for a northern retirement community |
Let's leave those CAA magazines for a moment.
I found several magazines on organizing and decluttering, which I added to the stack on the bookshelf. I'm not sure I really need to read the rest of the decluttering magazines, but for now, they stay put.
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More decluttering magazines |
And then this happened.
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The new home for the CAA magazines |
Subconscious: I TOLD YOU SO!!!!
Me: Shut up!!! You sound like my mother!
Me: OK - I don't mean to be harsh, but you were right!
Subconscious: Thank you! And you'll thank me as you now have MORE time to sew! And think about the weight that is being lifted off those shoulders! You won't need to go for therapeutic massages in the future!
That was hard, but I need to be aware of the balance between time and value. Will anything I glean from browsing those magazines change my life? What about the 10/10/10 rule?
In ten minutes will I remember the tidbit? Probably yes, but there's a good chance that unless I write about it - it's gone!.
In ten weeks? Probably no.
In ten years? Definitely not, although its amazing what little tidbits of information stick in your head.
Before going to bed, I sorted the rest of the stack into either titles or categories. Do NOT yell at me for doing this. I threw some away - so no yelling.
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The rest of the magazines are somewhat sorted |
I put the next category on the kitchen table, and I'll deal with it later today. Hopefully, my subconscious will be there to guide me.
Subconscious: Oh, you bet! I'll be there whenever you need me. I'm trying to clear your mind and your physical space, so we can sew. I much prefer sewing to decluttering. It's less work for me!
I found two magazines that I NEED to keep, and I'll share them with you later this week as I go through that stack. I would love to be able to process those piles and not put them back on the shelf. I can do it, but I have to do it my way! And I appreciate how good you have all been about not giving me advice. It means you are listening to me and hopefully feeling my angst.
You have to understand that reading material is probably the MOST precious thing in the world to me. I was a voracious reader when I was a kid. I didn't have access to a lot growing up where I was. I never had access to a public library or a store where I could browse. Definitely not any electronic stuff. I was 100% dependent on adults for reading material until I went to a larger school in Grade 6, where they had a school library. I felt like I had died and gone to heaven.
Let's not forget my Mom, the hoarder, also has a thing for magazines, so it's hardwired in my brain!
I think I did pretty well to toss those magazines yesterday. It's not the first time, and part of me still wants to sift quickly through the pages, but then I get this:
Subconscious: It's not worth your time!
Me: OK OK - I'm getting it!
I did NOT buy those CAA magazines. I did not choose for them to be in my house. And let's face it, most articles in all magazines are not in-depth. They are written extremely generic. I may empty that recycling basket so I don't hear them calling me, as the recycling bin is next to my computer!
Once those magazines on the floor are dealt with, I believe all the magazines in the office will be dealt with, except the occasional ones mixed in the boxes of paper. Ooops --- I just remembered there are a few on the desk. Well, let's get these done first. I'm fired up and motivated.
The best news is that I'm on my own for a while, as DH has some upcoming trips and I'm way more productive when he's gone. Do not ask me why. I think it's because I can work at any time of the day or night, and there are zero questions. Lights can be on, music if I want, and any time of day works!
I feel the urge to purge!!!!
I have a crazy day ahead of me. I'm speaking at the East Lake Simcoe Quilters Guild in Cannington, and thankfully, their meeting is in the afternoon, so I can drive there and back during the day. But it's going to take most of the day.
I have a lot of follow-up from the weekend, and then I need to hit the ground running as I have two projects that MUST be done this week.
But first, I'm off to spin class.
Here's an assignment for you. What is the one thing in your house that you struggle to deal with? For me, it's magazines. And we won't even talk about quilt magazines, although I do read them, albeit very slowly, and I enjoy them, and then they go in the recycling.
OK - so you've identified the problem item(s). Start asking yourself some questions like I did above. Why? When? How? Where? Etc. Will you learn anything from the item? Does it give you pleasure? Etc. Be brutal; if the answer is that you need to keep it, then keep it and stop feeling guilty about it. If you don't need to keep it, what can you do to start the emotional detachment from those items? It's HARD - very HARD and I'll be thinking about those CAA magazines for a couple of weeks until I let it go. OK - maybe a day or two!
And an interesting thought was brought up yesterday. Just because I'm on this decluttering journey - OK - let's face it - I've been on this journey for over 15 years! I'm just getting faster and I've staunched the incoming - at last! But don't feel compelled to declutter just because I am. You need to declutter because you WANT to. That's been my problem -- I bought the magazines, read the articles, but I wasn't ready, so it took me a long time for it to become a real desire.
BUT now that I see how much better I feel (mentally, especially) and the fact that I LOVE clean, open, and empty spaces, I wish I had been faster. But it doesn't matter - I'm doing it now. This is for ME, and if you pick up a tidbit or two for later in your life or now -- that's your choice! Your journey is yours!
Have a super day!!!
Ciao!!!!